Hi Michael,
Firstly, I think it’s wonderful that you were able to extend the conversation surrounding transportation and climate change to your girlfriend. Although I do not live in Orange, California, I was born and raised in the San Fernando Valley of Los Angeles, so I can also say that the public transportation systems here are quite fragmented and “inconvenient” given the required walking distances in between transit stops. I will admit that in the past, any destination that required me to walk for more than 15 minutes would discourage me, ultimately leaving me inclined to drive my own car to certain places. However, I have pledged to challenge myself to drive as little as possible – especially for the rest of my time living in Westwood. Since my apartment in Westwood is about a 15-minute walk from Westwood Village, I have committed myself to walking (and not driving) whenever I need to make any necessary grocery or shopping trips. If there are instances where I need to purchase groceries in bulk and where walking with many heavy bags will be an obstacle, I try to coordinate my grocery trips with other roommates so that we can all drive in one car at the same time and minimize any unnecessary car trips.
I was a bit amused when you described your girlfriend and the rest of her household as “carnivores” because that’s exactly how I jokingly refer to my own boyfriend sometimes. My boyfriend is Peruvian, and many of his favorite Peruvian dishes contain some sort of beef or other red meat. For instance, one of his favorite Peruvian dishes is called “lomo saltado,”and it contains strips of sirloin beef that are perfectly marinated and served with French fries, onions, and tomatoes. It is so tasty that it is hard to blame him for eating it so often. We went to buy lunch together this past weekend, and he once again ordered another dish with beef. I know that my boyfriend is well aware of the impacts red meat consumption has on cardiovascular health, so I asked him if he sees himself potentially eliminating red meat from his diet in the future. He responded that he will drastically cut down on his red meat consumption when he is older and that he is only trying to enjoy eating red meat while he is still “young and healthy.” In other words, his good physical health at the current moment provides him that “cushion of comfort” to still feel relaxed about eating red meat consistently. While I’m glad that he understands the health repercussions of consuming lots of red meat, I still encouraged him to cut down his current levels of consumption because it will have tremendous benefits on reducing greenhouse gas emissions. I believe the best way to have these types of conversations with loved ones is by ensuring that you highlight the benefits of making such transitions. For me, it was really important to make sure that I did not sound condescending or critical of his cultural food traditions. Instead of outright making derogatory claims that his dietary habits were bad, I applauded him for the actions he already has taken to change his diet, and I pointed out future directions he can follow to continue helping the environment through his dietary choices. I have encouraged him to join me in the challenge of eating no meat on Mondays. I personally believe that having a partner or buddy that you can complete these challenges with makes the tasks seem much less daunting. If my boyfriend and I want to go on outings where the destinations are not too far from us, I will suggest that we walk to those places instead of driving there. We are both trying to be more active, and walking to more places will definitely help us with our fitness goals! I am going to reach out to my boyfriend later and ask him to calculate his carbon footprint with me. I am very curious to see how both of our daily habits contribute to greenhouse gas emissions. As was the case with your girlfriend, I am also hoping that calculating our carbon footprints will show us how even the smallest changes in our transportation and diet choices can mitigate climate change progression.
Overall, I applaud you for spreading this awareness to your girlfriend and her friends!